Wedding cards are tricky because the stakes feel high. It's a permanent moment — this card might end up in a box they open on their 25th anniversary. No pressure.

The good news: you don't need to be Shakespeare. You just need to be sincere, specific, and brief. Here are messages for every level of closeness.

For a Close Friend

You know them well. Let that show.

I've watched you grow into someone who deserves exactly this kind of happiness. Seeing you with [[Name]] makes perfect sense — you bring out the best in each other. Here's to a lifetime of that.

From late-night talks about what love should feel like to watching you stand at that altar — what a journey. You found a great one. I'm so happy for you both.

For a Family Member

Keep it warm and rooted in family.

Watching you grow up and now seeing you start this new chapter fills me with so much pride and joy. [[Name]] is lucky to be joining this family — and we're lucky to have them. Congratulations to you both.

Our family just got a little bigger and a lot better. Welcome to the crew, [[Name]]. We couldn't be happier for you two.

For a Coworker

Friendly without overstepping.

Congratulations on your wedding! It's been great seeing how happy you've been leading up to this day. Wishing you and [[Name]] a wonderful life together.

For an Acquaintance

You were invited. You showed up. A short, genuine message is perfect.

What a beautiful celebration — thank you for including us. Wishing you both a marriage filled with laughter, patience, and more good days than you can count. Congratulations!

For a Second Marriage

Celebrate the fresh start without dwelling on the past.

Some of the best love stories have a second chapter. I'm so glad you found yours. Wishing you both every happiness — you deserve this.

If You Want to Include Advice

Only if it's genuine and not preachy.

The best advice I ever got about marriage: always be on the same team, even when you disagree. You two already do that beautifully. Congratulations — this is going to be an amazing ride.

What to Avoid

Don't joke about "the end of freedom" or "the ball and chain." Don't reference exes. Don't write more than the bride and groom will want to read after opening 150 cards. Keep it warm, keep it short, and make it about them — not about you.

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